Archive for the ‘Betsy’ Category

You Can’t Keep a Good Woman Down (or Off-line!)

November 23, 2008

extensioncords

Yesterday I got a demonstration of how creative my bride can be.

Friday night, about the time we were thinking about going to bed, we suddenly lost all power in our computer room.  At first we thought we had lost all power, but we then realized that electrical appliances in other rooms were working, so we knew that something else was wrong.  I went out to the garage and checked the electrical panel and discovered that the circuit breaker for the computer room was off.  I turned it back on and it promptly went off again.  Definitely not good!

We then unplugged everything and I tried the circuit breaker again — no luck, it kept tripping off.  We finally gave up and went to bed, although I wondered how we would get by with no computers in the morning.  (We haven’t yet joined the laptop – wireless crowd, but this may cause us to do so!)

Yesterday (Saturday) morning Betsy got up at her usual early hour to put out her bird feed.  Since I’m such a nice guy I asked her if she wanted some help, but she said ‘No’.  I dozed off and on for a while, wondering why Betsy didn’t come back to bed.  My curiosity finally got the better of me and I got up to be greeted by a surprise — my bride had gathered up just about every extension cord we owned and strung them across the house.  The living room looked a little strange, but the computers worked.

The electrician will be here Monday and hopefully find and fix the problem.  But in the meantime we’re online, thanks to my creative bride.

Work or Play?

November 20, 2008
Betsy 'working' on the leaves.  Fairfield Glade, October 2007.

Betsy working on the leaves, Fairfield Galde, October, 2007.

Yesterday was a busy day for the Adams.  In the morning we made our weekly trip into town to do our grocery shopping (we like the Senior discount at Krogers!!).

In the afternoon we decided to tackle the leaves in our yard.  The trees around us have lost most of their leaves over the past couple of weeks, and although we cleaned the leaves last week, it was time to do it again.  Actually it was past time, but rain and high winds kept us from doing much over the past couple of days.

But yesterday afternoon the wind died down and the leaves were dry, so Betsy and I decided we couldn’t put things off any longer.  Betsy is the leaf-blower ace — she can get those leaves to go where ever she wants them to go.  My job is simpler — I provide the muscle to carry leaves away.

We have one big advantage when it comes to getting rid of leaves — our yard backs onto the golf course and the maintenance people will use their equipment to pick up leaves from the rough directly behind our house.  Betsy can blow leaves from the back yard directly onto the golf course property, but the other sides of the house involve some work.  That’s where I come in — I get to carry the leaves to where they can be dumped.

Now don’t get me wrong — Betsy also works hard.  But she has this wonderful ability (see above) to make work seem like play.  Or should I say to make play seem like work?

The Secret to Betsy’s Happiness

November 17, 2008
Snow on a pansy, Fairfield Glade.  November 16, 2008.

Snow on a pansy, Fairfield Glade. November 16, 2008.

Betsy was in a very good mood yesterday morning, and the picture above shows the reason why.  Betsy woke up yesterday morning to find snow on the deck and flowers.

I   really don’t understand it, but Betsy loves snow.  We haven’t had what she calls a good snow for a couple of years.  The first winter we lived here in the Glade we had a 10-inch snow storm!  We had gone to Hendersonville that day and it started to snow as we headed back.  The trip home took twice as long as normal and we had to walk up the hill to the house, but that was a good snow storm as far as Betsy was concerned.

So although she was delighted to see the snow yesterday, I know that it only whetted Betsy’s appetite for more.  I want my bride to be happy, but I wish it was spring flowers she wanted to see!

She Came Back!!!

October 13, 2008
Susan, Nita, Reida and Betsy at a Savannah restaurant.  October 8, 2008.

Susan, Nita, Reida and Betsy at a Savannah restaurant. October 8, 2008.

Saturday was a wonderful day.  My bride came back home!

Betsy went to Tybee Island, Georgia, with Nita, Reida and Susan, her childhood girlfriends from Big Stone Gap, Virginia.  Only Nita still lives in Big Stone Gap today, but the four of them have been getting together for a trip just about every year since 1992.

This year they had a longer-than-usual trip, spending a week on the beach in Georgia.  They came back on Saturday, and I drove down to Atlanta (where Susan now lives) to pick up Betsy.

Betsy kept me waiting as they got to Atlanta later than expected, but since she wasn’t driving I guess I can’t hold that against her.  But what I can say is that it’s great to have her back!

But don’t tell her — I don’t want her to get a big head!!!

When the Cat’s Away … I Get a Honey-Do List!

October 5, 2008

I’m sure you have all heard the saying “When the cat’s away the mice will play”.  Well, the cat’s away, but I’m not sure that I will be able to play.

Betsy is down at Tybee Island, Georgia, with her three childhood girlfriends from Big Stone Gap, Virginia.  The ‘Get-Away-Gang’, as they are known, starting taking annual getaways in 1992, the year they all turned 50.  They’re goiing to be at Tybee for a week.

I took Betsy down to Atlanta to meet up with Nita, Reida and Susan.  You would think when I got back home I could look forward to a week of leisurely reading, listening to music, and working on my stamps.

But oh, no, I get to look forward to a week of feeding the birds, cleaning the bird bath, planting pansies, and doing the grocery shopping.  There are a few more chores on the list, but so far I’ve been afraid to look.

I guess I’ll have to change that saying to “When the cat’s away I get a honey-do list!”

Guess Why Betsy Likes Acorns

September 28, 2008

Would you like to have some acorns?  We have plenty!  There are so many acorns falling from the trees around the house that it is difficult to walk in some parts of the yard.  They’re falling so fast that we can’t keep up.  Yesterday afternoon I picked up two bags of acorns from our big flower bed and two hours later Betsy picked up another bag full!

I would expect that normally Betsy would be upset with so many acorns to clean up, but she has been surprisingly calm about the whole thing.  As a matter of fact, the more acorns we get. the happier Betsy gets.  What’s going on?!?

If you know Betsy at all you know how fascinated she is with weather.  She checks weather forecasts daily (sometimes several times a day).  Betsy has bemoaned our drought over the past two years and our lack of snow over the last two winters.  But what do acorns have to do with weather?

I found the answer in an article in our local paper written by a lady who uses folklore to predict weather.  According to her research into weather signs,  “a heavy mast crop (acorns, hickory nuts, chestnuts, walnuts, etc.) equaled a hard winter.”

Now I’m not sure what is meant by a hard winter, but if hard winter means lots of snow I now understand why Betsy is so happy about all those acorns!!!

Betsy’s Birds IV

September 10, 2008

A goldfinch at our thistle mesh bag. September 9, 2008.

I’ve written several times about Betsy’s new-found infatuation with birds.  I have to admit that right now the birds rank right up there with the weather as far as Betsy is concerned.

I think Betsy’s favorite bird at the moment is the cardinal.  But for several weeks we’ve had glimpses of a goldfinch in the yard.  We’ve never been able to get a picture of it until yesterday.  The picture above isn’t very good, but we did at least get a picture.  After we got this picture we saw two goldfinch around a different feeder, but couldn’t get a good picture because of the screen between us and the feeder.

The bird is getting thistle seeds from the mesh bag.  Evidently goldfinch are particularly fond of thistles, because Betsy got another feeder and filled it with a mixture including thistle seeds and that quickly got the attention of the goldfinches.

The American Goldfinch is a gregarious bird and can be found in small groups during the breeding season and in flocks during the winter.  Hopefully they will continue to be attracted by Betsy’s feeders year around.

A New Man in Betsy’s Life!

September 2, 2008
Hurricane Gustav coming ashore.  September 1, 2008.

Hurricane Gustav coming ashore. September 1, 2008.

Betsy has a new man in her life!

I didn’t realize, until after we were married, what a ‘weather’ person Betsy is.  She is absolutely fascinated by weather — all kinds of weather.  She has several weather widgets on her computer desktop.  I can’t count the number of weather sites she has bookmarked in her internet browser.  But I do know that the Weather Channel is her favorite television channel!

I must admit that I found Betsy’s fascination with weather to be slightly amusing.  Huricanes, blizzards, rainstorms and floods all get her attention.  Of course, since she used to live in New Orleans, anything effecting that city really gets her attention.  She was delighted to find that DirecTV was broadcasting a local New Orleans station with hurricane coverage nationwide.  She watched that quite a bit Sunday evening.

Still, I didn’t think too much about Gustav until very early yesterday morning.  About 4 o’clock I heard a noise in the living room and woke up to find my bride watching New Orleans television coverage of Gustav!!!

Gustav will still cause a lot of rain in Louisiana and Texas, but I for one am glad the main infatuation is over.  The next hurricane is Hanna, so that doesn’t worry me so much.  But they’ve just announced that hurricane Ike is on the way.  I wonder how much sleep I’ll get when he gets here?

Betsy’s Birds III

August 28, 2008
A male cardinal  on our deck.  August 28, 2008.

A male cardinal on our deck. August 28, 2008.

As I’ve mentioned before, Betsy has become fascinated with birds.  She started with hummingbirds a couple of years ago, but has moved on to other species as well.  She started putting out bird seed on the deck and then got a seed bell.  Since then she has been quite successful in attracting birds onto our deck to have a snack.

We also got a bird bath for the back yard which also attracts its share of ‘customers’.  All in all it’s possible to see quite a bit of feathered activity on our deck or in the back yard.  When Betsy is not watching her feathered friends she is online trying to identify the birds she’s seen.

We’ve seen a pair of cardinals for a couple of weeks, but apparently cardinals are shy birds and we couldn’t get close enough to get a picture.  But it rained all day Tuesday and we had errands to run yesterday morning, so it was nearly noon before Betsy was able to put out her bird seed.  I guess the birds missed some meals and were hungry because we had quite a few enjoying their meal.  And to our surprise even the cardinals showed up for a snack and the male stuck around long enough for us to get the picture above.

I wonder what species Betsy will attract next?

Celebrating Monthaversaries

August 24, 2008
Our wedding day -- June 23, 2001.

Our wedding day -- June 23, 2001.

Since I was 59 when Betsy and I got married, we realized we probably wouldn’t have as many anniversaries as some couples do. (Mom and Dad celebrated their 68th anniversary this past May!). So we decided to celebrate monthaversaries on the 23rd of each month as well as anniversaries.

Our celebration usually consists of going out for dinner. It doesn’t have to be a fancy restaurant — just something to remind us of how fortunate we are and how much we have to celebrate.

Yesterday we celebrated our 86th monthaversary by going to Cookeville and eating at the Golden Corral Restaurant (Betsy just loves the cheese-garlic biscuits and the peanut butter cookies). Since we’re both senior citizens the cost was very reasonable and the air conditioning in the car on the drive over gave us a chance to get a break from the hot weather.

It wasn’t a spectacular celebration, but it was definitely special. I’m already looking forward to our next monthaversary celebration.